Friday, November 30, 2012

A few things I've learned....

No matter how much good advice you give to your friends for or against something they are never going to fully listen and will always go with what they want.

Negative thoughts and actions DO effect how you think and feel about yourself. They are unhealthy and should be crushed.

No matter what, even if I stop writing for months, the writer in me can never die.

Friends come and go, but there will be a few that you truly love like family and will never leave you no matter how far apart you grow.

Everybody (including the absolute worst of us) is a human just like you. Unless they are aliens dressed up as humans and trying to run the US. Then they are those instead. :)

Making yourself happy should come first or else you won't be able to please anyone else.

Gifts and charm ALWAYS work.

Being a door mat is never fun, or sexy, or interesting or healthy.

Gender roles are completely constructed. Ignore them.

Empathy and sympathy are not the same thing. Both should be used with caution, but not ignored. They are sometimes necessary.

Don't be afraid to argue or disagree a little. Cause it's fun n'shit.

Don't judge or hate strangers when you don't know their story.

Don't hate rude people because they can't behave respectfully. Just be as nice and cheerful as possible to put them at shame for their unseemly behavior.

Smile and laugh, don't be afraid to joke around. I usually don't take stuff too seriously.

Don't think you can't do something because it becomes true and tortures you.

One must always be interesting. I hate boring. I hate being bored. I lose patience quickly.


Okay, so maybe some of these I'm still working on.... :)

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